mengapa tidak bahagia?

Mengapa sih kita tidak bahagia?

Karena kita tidak mensyukuri apa yang kita miliki dan melupakannya, sehingga kita terus merasa kurang dan kurang terus. 

Benar ga?

Kita kadang berfikir bahwa rejeki itu hanya uang saja, kita lupa bahwa kesehatan merupakan bagian dari kebahagiaan, anak yang baik, pintar dan mendengarkan nasehat kita merupakan bagian dari kebahagiaan dan rejeki yang telah Tuhan Yang berikan kepada diri kita.

Kita sering melihat keatas dari segi materi sehingga seakan materi itu merupakan tujuan utama kehidupan sehingga membuat tidak bahagia.
Jika kita tidak bahagia maka orang disekitar kita juga tidak akan bahagia karena kita sering marah-marah, maukah keluarga kita menerima dampak ketidakbahagiaan kita?

Mari kita renungkan apa saja yang kita miliki?

Ebooknya di Bahagia Itu Mudah !!! atau di google play store Bahagia Itu Mudah !!! atau di getscoop Bahagia itu Mudah  .

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bosan dengan pernikahan?

Setelah beberapa tahun menjalani pernikahan kadang rasa bosan menghampiri diri kita. Mengapa sih kita bosan?

Karena pernikahan kita selalu sama setiap hari, bangun pagi berangkat kantor atau mengantar anak ke sekolah kemudian setelah itu berangkat kantor, bertemu dengan pekerjaan rutin. Pulang kantor bertemu dengan istri yang menggunakan daster yang sudah bolong dan bau masakan..he..hee, belum lagi istri menagih uang maka akan terasa berat kehidupan pernikahan..he..he. 

Kebosanan timbul karena melakukan hal yang sama setiap hari dalam jangka waktu tertentu.

Bagaimana agar tidak bosan?

Ada beberapa tips agar pernikahan tidak membosankan:

1. Coba jalan berdua walau hanya sekedar nonton atau makan malam, anak-anak dititip ke rumah orang tua dulu malam ini..he..hee.

2. Coba bervariasa dalam berhubungan intim

3. Kedua pasangan harus merasakan kenikmatan berhubungan intim suami dan istri

4. Coba cuti satu hari bersama pasangan, sambil mesra-mesraan atau jalan ke tempat yang romantis.

5. Berlibur

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Bercanda kok, Ebook tips menciptakan keharmonisan keluarga isinya apa sih?

Ebook ini berisi :

1. Proses awal menikah dan segala permasalahan serta solusinya.

2. Proses setelah menikah dalam waktu beberapa bulan dan solusinya.

3. Tips agar segera memiliki anak

4. Proses kehamilan dan merawat anak.

5. Sampai akhirnya tips untuk membuat keluarga menjadi harmonis serta solusi jika ada permasalahan-permasalahan, selain itu juga lebih mengenal kemauan pasangan, hobby pasangan dan lain-lain.

6. Cara agar pasangan makin cinta dan sayang kepada diri kita.

7. Menciptakan suasana seperti pacaran.

8. Tips agar tidak diselingkuhi dan mendapat perhatian suami.

dream?

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Anyer, Marbella Apartment, room 5504, 23 December 2012, 22:47

Every human being in this world certainly has a dream.  Many dreams we get. Sometimes we forget that. There are many obstacles and problems when pursuit the dream. Everyone does not have ability to keep and maintain the dream to be realized.  Only the strong and consistent people who believe in their dreams that can make it happen. But do not forget to pray, asks God Almighty to grant the dream.

I listen to splashing water and the sound of the waves. Late night, the situation did not stop me to write and write again.

Millions or even thousands of people were asleep with their dreams and I also fell asleep in my dreams in this paper. As is the sound of water and sticky air accompany me to remove of my wild idea. Let them speak in writing, in the voices of the alive words. Let the keyboard and my fingers ran beautifully on my laptop.

Accompanied by the waves sound, my passion to write is getting higher. Dark night and the mosquitoes flirty started coming toward me, but I want to continue to write, speak, say and express my heart.  Let them bite and suck my blood so they are well fed and happy. A simple option. It is a simple choice. Life is a choice. Dreaming and realizing it is a choice.

When traveling to Anyer, we passed the road that does not usually aim to avoid congestion. I got the information from a friend.

After an hour driving, we were amazed by the natural scenery. Yellow rice background, mountains, cool wind and the warm sun hot make us stop and photograph the beauty of the natural charm. The charm of nature accompanies us continuously, along the way. At uphill road, almost 90 degrees makes our heart beat faster, the declining nearly 90 degrees makes us shout together happily.  Farmers through, wearing caping caps and hoe on his shoulder, it is a rare sight we encountered in Jakarta.

We are fatigue and hungry, so we decide to stop. In Karangbolong beach there  are               many

food stalls, but why is devoid of visitors? We are starving, so we decided to go into one of the stalls which are clean and comfortable. We request a list of menus to order food. The pricelist is made of paper     which    contains     writings  food  menu  without  prices  make  me  suspicious.

We ordered fried calamari, stir-fried kale, lemon juice and tea. I want delicious food, warm rice, fried calamari which was not too hard but ripe, green stir-fried kale and cold orange juice to relieve my hunger.

The food came after we waited about twenty minutes, hard and cold rice, large and rather smelly fried calamari and tasteless stir fried kale, so we did not want to eat them all. It had unsatisfactory taste and the price is too expensive.  We were disappointed.

Maybe the owner has a dream that his stall is always full of visitors everyday but if he did that, that dream will never come true, right?

A disappointment for services provided will destroy part or all of our dreams.

• Andy Kurniawan –

Busyness of Worldly Activities

At 10:30 am I was on the plane while looking at the cluster of clouds moved towards Palu from Jakarta, Sunday, April 29, 2012.

Everyday, people especially for they who live in Jakarta must have felt like the picture above, leaving early in the morning or doing anything in a rush if we oversleep. Sometimes we feel that the time which is given to us as much as 24 hours still feels lacking and if given time more than 24 hours for sure we choose the time more than 24 hours. The above figures are often encountered. Actually I've wanted to write since two days ago but due to lack of time and opportunities, besides I also have to share my time with family and my little angel, the most beautiful gift from Allah SWT named Dhisa Ezza Radhiya Putri, which is mean "the daughter of Andy and Nisa whom expected to be solehah, intelligent and virtuous ".

Subhanallah, thank you Allah SWT, you give health to me today so I can write on a Garuda Indonesia 608. Then, when I looked to the seat next to me there is a passenger who got ill (fever) and really sorry for him, and as I looked at the aircraft windows I can see the clean white clouds and the houses which looked like just dots and hardly noticeable. So how about humans? Certainly unseen at all.

When I was at the top and looked down I felt great and high, and when I was on the ground I felt big and tall if I look at the smaller things than me (the definition of small that I mean can be size, position, knowledge, wealth and handsomeness or beauty).

But when the plane shaked because of the bad weather, all sense of feeling high and feeling great were just gone, because everything belongs only to Allah while I am just a humble servant, sinful and not infallible.

Alhamdulillah, then I stopped writing for a while due to receiving the delicious food and my favorite chocolate ice cream but pity the passenger next to me, that young man was feverish he can’t enjoy the ice cream. Thank you Allah SWT and thank the stewards and stewardesses Garuda Indonesia for giving me good food with hospitality and the video I listened to while I was writing.

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